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Can MySpace Be Good for Kids?
As kids continue to flock to sites like MySpace, and the backlash from parents and the media fades, it's time to take a fresh look at social networking.
Teen Fads and Parental Angst Ah, the ephemeral nature of teen fads. In a few years' time we've witnessed a complete lifecycle of teen enthusiasm, in this case for social networking sites: The word spreads virally, some bad things happen, the media gets into the act, parents react with fear, and boom, you have the Great MySpace Brouhaha of 2006.
"Web of Risks" and "MySpace, A Dangerous Place" are just two of the many negative headlines from the past year. Reports of predators targeting young girls online, of high school kids advertising parties that quickly spiral out of control, of college students being expelled for posting compromising photos of themselves, have contributed to growing alarm among adults.
But in the process, some who've studied the phenomenon say we've lost sight of the benefits that can be had from the demonized social networking sites. As long as parents talk to their kids about the importance of keeping private information private, and monitor their screen time, these sites may help develop creativity and even reading skills, these researchers say.
MySpace Has Redeeming Qualities? Yes, say educators and researchers who have quickly moved into the fray. With the public's attitude slowly relaxing, many experts now say social networking sites help develop a child's sense of self and provide avenues for creative self-expression.
Although news reports have noted anecdotal evidence that some of the earliest adopters of MySpace, Facebook, Friendster and Xanga appear to be showing signs of social networking fatigue, new waves of youth are continually supplementing the ranks. "MySpace is still frequently used and its usage is growing exponentially," says Sameer Hinduja, assistant professor in the Department of Criminology and Criminal Justice at Florida Atlantic University and co-author with Justin W. Patchin of a study on adolescent usage of MySpace.
The good ... Tweens and teens, typically sensitive to peer judgments, often use MySpace to experiment with their self-image by creating and constantly updating their profiles. "Young people create virtual representations of themselves and hang out with their friends' virtual representations," says Hinduja. "They're able to share with each other through this functionality despite being in different locations."
Larry Magid, co-author with Anne Collier of the recently published 2007 book MySpace Unraveled: A Parent's Guide to Teen Social Networking, and co-director with Collier of BlogSafety.com, believes that the experimentation kids do online is healthy. "They might explore music outside of their comfort level. Or they may be creative and expressive, in a way that doesn't reveal personal information, by saying something that isn't popular."
Creating a profile page requires thought and creativity. "Kids learn a little bit about Web development, how to link and upload files, and about fonts and layout," says Hinduja. "They construct their thoughts and feelings in a written form on blogs and in their comments. They post poems, stories and journal entries, and this develops their critical thinking and self-reflection."
But what about the text-messaging shorthand that drives some adults crazy? "I don't see the shorthand being used across most pages," says Hinduja.
Donna Alvermann, distinguished research professor of language and literacy education at the University of Georgia, and a specialist on Web literacy and adolescence, believes many youth are more motivated to read when they're on the Internet. "I'm investigating students who are not good readers in school — and not very interested in school — but who can do all this stuff on the Internet and who look very competent outside of school." Alvermann has found that the motivation and engagement provided by the Internet can be the key to an otherwise poor student's development as a reader.
"We usually go on the Web when there's something we want to know. That's not always present for school assignments," says Alvermann. "Kids are reading and researching what they're interested in when they're on the Internet outside of school time. Kids can get at information equally as important as their school assignments. Quite frankly, sometimes it's more exciting what they can do and how they can grow on their own."
Kids should still use books to back up what they find on the Web, she says. "There's lots of visual information on the Internet, but books will never go away. There will always be books propped up against the computer."
Learning to read images and glitzy visuals on the Internet is part of learning to read Web sites critically. "This is actually a high-level skill," says Alvermann, "For example, a kid who is researching Martin Luther King might stumble across a Ku Klux Klan site. This kid needs to learn that although the site is interesting visually, much of the information might not be trustworthy."
The bad ... Just as some experts extol the virtues of social networking sites and online communities, others aren't having any of it. Bill Joy, cofounder of Sun Microsystems, disputed this idea in a recent issue of The Atlantic Monthly: "If I was competing with the United States, I would love to have the students I was competing with spending their time on this kind of crap," he says. "[P]eople are fooling themselves that they're being creative in these spaces."
No matter how you assess the value of online creativity, the privacy issue is still the paramount concern for most parents. During this past summer, Hinduja and Patchin set out to study just how dangerous MySpace is.
"The purpose of our research was to find out if kids really were posting personal information, and we found out that they weren't that much. Although only a very small percentage of teen users did post phone numbers, that's still too many because it opens them up to victimization. We definitely want to educate teens about this danger. But the danger was blown out of proportion by the media," says Hinduja.
Magid, co-author of MySpace Unraveled, commends MySpace for listening to the concerns of parents. "I think the company is serious about safety. They've made it possible for anybody of any age to have a private profile. But their issue is that if they come down too hard on security, the kids will lose interest. MySpace has to keep it edgy to keep their customers happy."
Could it be that parents today are overly risk averse? Magid thinks so. "For better or worse, we're raising a generation of bubble-wrapped kids," says Magid. "Risk is part of the learning process. You want to manage the risk so that your kids don't do something that they'll regret, but it's a tight-rope walk. When I traveled when I was younger I didn't have a cell phone, but now I'm nervous when I lose track of my grown son for two days."
Monitoring a child's online activities and yet giving her enough space to develop independence and good judgment is one of the more difficult balancing acts of parenting. Another is knowing when to restrict certain social influences, and many parents would consider MySpace to be a minefield of negative influences. From the casual usage of "ho" and "pimp" to sexually suggestive photos to references to drinking, drugs and casual sex, many parents are not thrilled with the culture on much of MySpace.
MySpace does have staff policing the site for violations of their rules. A MySpace representative stated in an email that, "MySpace dedicates a third of our workforce to monitoring our site on a 24-hour, seven-day-a-week basis. MySpace has developed a series of initiatives designed to protect our users against inappropriate conduct and content, including reviewing every image hosted by our site — more than 2 million every day — using our dedicated customer care team as well as algorithms and search engines to identify and purge inappropriate material."
Although MySpace takes these precautions, it's still a wide-open public forum and, ultimately, it's up to the MySpace community to enforce the rules. MySpace users can report any images that they feel are inappropriate by clicking on "Report This Image" under profile images.
... And the ugly The conflict between youth and adults over social networking has its source in two characteristics. Adults are uncomfortable with a medium that they didn't grow up with. And youth are in denial that their blogs, postings and photos are public.
"Kids are in denial because the name is MySpace," says Magid. "There is a sense of intimacy for them. For example, if two people are dating and they're in a restaurant and holding hands, they could be oblivious to other people being around them. There is a sense of anonymity.
"Or they could be showing off and there is a sense of narcissism. It's Andy Warhol's 15 minutes of fame. There are people who have huge followings for their blogs. They've become very famous."
What's Next? While it's impossible to predict the future, it's always fun to speculate. Larry Magid, in addition to being the co-author of MySpace Unraveled, is a technology commentator for CBS News and in an excellent position to make an informed prediction.
"We think there is going to be a large migration to mobile," he says. "We already see this in texting. There's a new service, Loopt.com, that takes advantage of GPS, and the kids can keep track of where their friends are. This brings up a whole host of new safety issues. Although it's a permission-based system, there are ways to trick kids into giving permission to become a friend. But beyond that, we know that communication and interactivity is here to stay. What we don't know for sure is what it's going to look like."
Additional Resources MySpace Unraveled: A Parent's Guide to Teen Social Networking by Larry Magid and Anne Collier, Peachpit Press, 2007. A particularly good aspect of the book is the "Key Parenting Point" feature.
Blogs, Wikis, Podcasts, and Other Powerful Web Tools for the Classroom by Will Richardson, Corwin Press, 2006.
Updated January 2008

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07/3/2008:
"well i use to have myspace? thats where my grandparents found out their granddaughter liked gurls im 17 now and i still cant have myspace!!!! i now go on it time to time to seee wat my baby sister puts on it and see if it is back? i mean its not that bad if ur not one of the poeple that add poeple just to have more poeple on your list u might not even know these poeple that how gurls meet over aged men and get in big trouble with them? so when they found out that i was lesbian i couldnt have a myspace any more? so my parents got mad too because thats where i found all my girl friend? but still dont have one i will soon? MYSPACE IS A GREAT WEB SITE FOR TEENAGERS!!! ( u hate me or love me) 210 texas finest"
07/2/2008:
"im a student &+ i personally think myspace is a piece of crap. it's really stupid and an easy way to get stalked or killed. what's the point of myspace? to have more space? well, if you want more space go to your room or get some fresh air outside. it's healthier than sitting infront of a computer all day sending friend requests to strangers."
06/18/2008:
"myspace. wowww. it is definetly a very addicting website and it puts kids in places they dont want to be. i had a myspace for a while and i was hiding it from my parents, and then they found out and i got in trouble. and i was so scared that i was losing it, and i thought that i couldnt live without it. thats how attacthed kids get to it, i know, cause i did. but now that i dont have one anymore. i realized that myspace really isnt all that. its a just a website, where you can talk to your friends, and edit your profile and pretending to be someone you arent. like, i mean myspacce and be good if you use it in the right way.but if you dont use it in the right way, then yes parents are right, it is dangerous. but it just depends on your maturity level and how you decide to use it. i think that myspace has way to many people hooked, and that there are manyother ways to contact with friends and family other then myspace or the computer. what happened to being old fashioned. this! new generation has changed so many different people. now all we care about is the media and people are so materialistic. its really sad. myspace is just a hook for teens, and its not that good for them. because they will spend hours in front of the computer messaging,commenting, and posting bulletins, instead of doing something useful and active like playing a sport or something. anyway, it just all depends on how you use it, but in my opinion myspace is just nothing to me. its useless. and its dangerous. but thats just my opinion. "
06/9/2008:
"im a teenager..and i would have to say that yeah myspace can be a bad place...but its also a place where u can have fun and chat with ur friends...parents should trust us,and knoe tht we wont do the things that they hear on the news..stuff happens..but if they tell kids what could happen then things wont happen..parents cant baby us forever...we need to learn to make smart decisions for ourselves..its a harsh reality"
06/2/2008:
"Okay, so i am also,a teen. Like many of the other people who made these comments,I Have had a myspace. At first, i thoought the idea was so cool, it's a GREAT way to keep connected to your friends, especilly for those who don't have cell phones. But,The dramma level has gotten out of hand,I can honestly say that 95% of my school has a myspace,which could be supriseing to you parents, but it's our generation. What is on our myspace should be private, parents shouldn't be snooping through them, There's a reason we don't tell our parents EVERYTHING.and what we keep with our friends, is our stuff.My myspace is private, because i AM aware of preditors, i don't put my last name/adress/city/state.and i only add those whom i know, which in my opinion is how it should be.Myspace wasn't ment to be a 'fantacy',it was ment to keep in touch. So i find it completly rediculous to see these girls/guys with 10,000 friends.Now ifyour a parent who has a kid with that many friends on their my! space, then i'd be worried. Because there's no way you can know 10,000 people, obviously..they're bound to be friends with preditors/kreeps. IT IS JUST A PHASE,THEY WILL GROW OUT OF IT. <3Haley, Sophmore."
06/2/2008:
"MySpace is fun, if you let it be. I think that kids should be able to have a MySpace, because it lets them interact with friends, and let people know a little bit about them. Thing is people post things that tell people information that may lead people to know where you are. That's why I think that kids should be able to have one, but I would make sure that my child didn't put anything personal out. And on myspace, you can set your profile to private so no one can see it, unless they add you as a friend. All of those things that you hear going on, are because kids gave out their information. That's why Myspace has it's pros and cons."
05/29/2008:
" I think that MySpace is the next big thing. I have first gotten mine in 6th grade. I was sooo sooo happy that day. My trick is, don't be friends with anyone you don't know. All my friends are on my MySpace. That means, I have met them, and have seen them in person for the last 6 months. NOT, that, oh, I met them once, and I really really know them."
05/6/2008:
"ok so my opinion is that myspace is not necessarily bad.i am a teen but no i do not have a myspace. this is my own decision. i used to have a myspace until i realized what a false reality it is. ppl get on there and try so hard to be someone they rnt and then they end up fooling others. i do believe this site can be used for good if u want it to. so no im not saying it is bad. i do believe it is addicting tho and it should be monitered. U shouldnt spend all of ur time on there bc it is just a web site. but i do have to say it is an excellent way of keepin in touch with friends. but also so is using the telephone and email. i guess it just depends on what kind of person u are and if u can handle the responsibility. "
05/5/2008:
"myspace isn't bad at all im a sophomore in high school and my 8th grade year i got a myspace. Many of my friends also have myspace i beleive it is a great way to talk to friends and meet new ones. the way my parents see it is as a way to get picked up by pervs. one thing they cant understand is that it is private to those you dont accept i only accept the people that i know. besides i only get on once a week if im lucky nemore so if ppl r going to judge it by the retards that put naked pics or something inappropriate online they should be looked down on not us good kids who only use it to chat!"
04/21/2008:
"hey i im a teen and i think that myspace is only as bad as u let it be. people are always saying that its is very unsafe , but really myspace gives everyone a choice to be very private .kids and teens dont have to interact with people that they dont kno .i especially like myspace because just about everyone has one and its a great way to catch up and talk to my friends. when i moved away i was able to talk to my friends all the time because of myspace."
04/14/2008:
"I think myspace is very bad.IM in 6th grade in Mr.Schumpf's class.All my friends have one.I tell them that it's bad, but they dont care.My parents won't let me, even if they did I wouldn't make one.My brother was sneaking on it when he was in 7th and 8th grade, but got cought in 9th grade and got punished.He never went on ever again.Boys and girls who go on try to hook up and think 'oh my gosh, this cute boy asked me if he wanted me to go out with him ' and one day that girl will find out that he's a pervert and and older man using a different pic of someone else.I wish myspace was never created or deleted soon.I want to be unknown plz thnx"
03/31/2008:
"alright...having a myspace is not as bad as everybody thinks it is. Of course im a teenager that has one, but that has nothing to do with it. Sometimes underaged kids get on myspace and put nasty pics of themselves on there and then they get targeted by pervs. That is totally the kids fault and sometimes it's the parents fault too. they have not taught their kids to be safe on the internet. if the parent would sit down and talk with their kid about safety on the internet and monitor their kids page, then maybe they wont end up on a missing child poster in Walmart. Of course my mother watches what i do on the internet and she always gets on me if im doing anything bad. All im saying is that if at least one of the child's parents would talk to them then they could keep themselves safe. Don't blame the internet, or Myspace at that, if your child gets abducted..."
03/31/2008:
"The truly bad thing about kids using MySpace is not only that they are posting personal information, but that they are lying to get their accounts in the first place. MS has a minimum age requirement of 14, yet I know DOZENS of 11 and 12 years olds that are lying about their age to get accounts. And they don't just lie and say they are 14; they are saying they are 17, 18, 19 or older!!! With the way society is headed, I wouldn't be surprised if these online predators eventually start beating their raps because they were 'misled' by these kids about their ages to begin with. "
03/28/2008:
" Both of my Middle school Kids have a myspace, I know there pass codes, but I also have a myspace in which I am friends with them and keep watch on the activity that goes on, on there profile. I have talked to my teens explaining the good and the bad. I am happy with the results, my kids are interacting with the other kids in school better now than before, because they discuss stuff that is going on in school, in each others life's they keep in touch through out the summer. and everyone seems to know each other better and feels more comfortable with each other. My teens are learning new things about the computer, and internet every day, they type well with great speed that impresses me. They do all of this because they want to not because they are forced to learn. My Children already know a lot about the computer they the school tries to teach them and they feel more comfortable in class. computer class is now the fun class to join. I find nothing wrong with myspace, facebook, bebo, ETC as long as the Parent is involved and sits down rules."
03/24/2008:
"Ok im a student at AKMS and i think what ever is on my Myspace is noones buisness exect mine or my parents,but i have had friends get in trouble at school because of their myspace. My file is viewable by the public and there is nothing on there that will lead someone to me. The kids who are targets are the ones who stupidly put there number,address,ect. on there and then wonder why some prev is stackin them. All i have to say is something i do in my privetcy off myspace shouldnt be brought up by school employess"
03/20/2008:
"I think the MySpace/internet thing for teens is about much more than just keeping their identity/home address private. First, they should not be messaging people they do not know. Also MySpace has a place to enter which High School they attend, and then they also have a default picture - often trying to 'look grown' and 'sexy' .... so now the preditor knows which school they attend and has their photo! Target! Also, I think parents are so adamant about 'respecting their child's privacy' that they do not know WHAT is going on in their online life. WE are the parents, and they look for us to BE the parent, even when they so struggle for their 'privacy'. I think it's important to have their passwords (or know how to get them if necessary). They can delete a MySpace message, but unless they have emptied their 'trashcan' ... it's still there. If you suspect any dangerous activity going on, I'm not sure 'Tom' can pull back up OLD notes sent/rec'd. My point, monitor their online life, see what photos they are posting, and what they are wearing OR NOT. I had to find out the hard way, that my daughter was on drugs. BE CAREFUL and being a parent is more important, than being liked or accepted. Know what your child is doing, saying and who they call 'friends'."
03/19/2008:
"wow. myspace is not the problem...it's the people who are on it. they use it to lure ppl they dont even kno just to say 'he was hitting on me'. it's the users problem if they put their phone #'s or address and nude pics. myspace bscly, the way i see, b/c im also a teen, is a place to reconnect with ur long lost friend, or if u dont like talking on the phone much or wat so ever, u talk online. i mean, on AIM, ANYBODY can talk to u, anybody can add u, nd myspace u can choose who u want to be friends with. its not the websites fault. its human nature itself. it is very addicting, nd yea it's dangerous, but it only depends on how u use it. they have terms and policies just like every other website, they just have extra features. posting pics online is prety dangerous, b/c you dont kno who hates u and can use ur photo, but it also depends on what photo u take. i've been on a bad road with myspace, but never in my life have i posted nudity, or personal info, or met sumone online.! as teens get older, i believe we have the right to explore. however, it also depends on ur maturity. "
03/18/2008:
"Myspace is not the problem.. the problem is your kids advertising themselfs as little sluts online. "
03/13/2008:
"Ya so i think that myspace is pretty cool. We all text and the life of today is more fast pace. Myspace is just a way cool and way easier way to e-mail. I get on when i can, it does not consume my life for the most part. It's mainly something to do during the weekdays. This has replaced MSN. So i think everyone should get a MYSPACE lol! And when you parents were kids what was the big thing for you, yea every parent isn't gonna always like the new things of the world. If you don't want you kid on myspace than that is your decision and if it works that is great. The always say 'Parents know BEST'."
03/11/2008:
"Ok, Myspace is the dumbest website/obsession ever. Although I am a teenager, i have enough common sense to realize that Myspace is just a website and nothing more. It's is this little 'fad' that everyone buys into (even myself) and checks daily. Here is where I start to get confused... What are you parents thinking?! Seriously! It's a website. It is not a 'Porn Trap' or anything like that. To be perfectly honest, even if it were, your precious little kid(s) isn't(aren't) oh so perfect. We are teenagers, we are humans, and we will be immature. If you shelter your child from all the bad things in life, your kid isn't going to understand anything when he grows up. They will most likely become a drug user or some bum that I laugh at when I drive by. The point i'm trying to make is... That if your child gets taken away by a predator or something along those lines, it is their fault, not the web site's. A web site can not and will not decide the fate of your poor little retarded child. If your daughter posts nide pics on Myspace, that is her fault. So why are we banning Myspace in schools because these stupid little kids are lying about how old they are and crap? Why are parents trying to ban something that they no absolutely nothing about? If you don't want your kid going online and you want to hid them from the world, fine, do what you want, but KEEP IT TO YOURSELF! I do agree with those rules. Never post things that are to personal. Plus, Myspace has made things a little bit safer, by making your profile private and by having to approve your comments. Parents take things way to far sometimes. IT'S ONLY A WEBSITE! This is what life is, it's not what it was when you were a teen, or maybe it was, whats for me to say how you grew up. Nothings perfect. Just be more accepting your children's choices, if they want to drink... let them learn the hard way. They'll grow up eventually and realize that smoking and drinking just isn't cool. They'll have to get a job someday. I'm sure you want your children to become successful, as does everyone, but you can't swing them all the way threw life. They need to learn alot of stuff on their own. *Sorry if I dragged this out, it just happens.*"
03/10/2008:
"I think myspace is good and I can see why parents get so worked up and dont allow their kids to have it..... just for the sake of talking to people that they do not know. I think that a parent should know their child enough to trust them and for the child to listen to the rules that are set. A child should also know the dangers of mysapce and take that into consideration... therefore they should not post pictures of themselves( half naked pictures) for the whole world to see. Also they should only talk to friends. By the time a child is 11 or possibly 12 they should know what is expected and what is not expected of them.... so I think that parents should let their child have a myspace... in the end they will end up having one anyway and will get in trouble for not obeying their parents(althogh it was a dumb rule) Also parents should look at their childs myspace and just make sure there are no innappropiate things downloaded, but at the same time respect their child and do no! t invade thier privacy. So basically if you are a parent struggling on letting your child have a myspace,see if your chid is responsible and if not then you need to think about whether or not your child is ready for a myspace and if you are a child trying to get your parents to let you get one just tell them you know the dangers and explain that you will be responsible in downloading things and talking to people and that they can look at the page without invading your privacy. I am only 12 and I do not have a myspace(although I believe I should, but I have to show my parents that I am responsible first) ps... if you know you brought your child up right then you need to trust them... myspace rocks :)"
03/10/2008:
"Micemaze ® is tired, not wired . Facebook is where the action is these days, it seems. Chat's been around since Banyan Vines® started it in 1992. There are choke great sites for kids, parents, and teachers; educators. Just try pbs.org or search on dot EDU (.edu) , alo'ha, (=>* "
03/5/2008:
"This site is brainwashing. Children can express theirselves creatively privately. Teaching them they need the satisfaction from others to feel good about what they have accomplished is the wrong way to go. Myspace is self-advertising. I've been there, done it for years and did I grow because of it? No."
03/5/2008:
"I think it's a parent's decision if they think their child should be allowed on myspace, but I also think that many parents are over-protective and they don't trust their children to know that they won't be stupid and due dumb things. Also, pre-teens aren't even allowed to join myspace without lying about their age. Also, parents should care enough to ask their children what they're doing and for them to show them their page."
03/5/2008:
"I have a myspace, but i never go on it anymore, because a week from when i made it, it started giving my computer very bad viruses. Luckily my mom and dad fixed the computer and now it works fine. But i CAN'T go on myspace anymore and it sucks cause it was so fun going on there! I wish it never gave me viruses cause my parents were perfectly fine with me having a myspace till it gave my computer viruses. oh well i'll get over it. but it sucks becuase it was fun talking to my freinds on there and all my friends have a myspace and now i can't go on it! Why does it give my computer viruses and not theres? that is very wierd!"
03/4/2008:
"my whole family has a myspace.. It is as clean has you make it.. There is danger all in this messed up world.. You can set myspace so private. To the people who have a issue with it. Do you send pics of your kids to friends over email? That is not the safest either. I think if you peak in on your kids, stay involved with them then you will know what is going on.. I think school is more unsafe then myspace. I will never forget my girls first year boy did they pick up some crap. Hey they leaned how to be mean.. I see this everyday parents form clicks but expect there kids not to.. hello you do as your taught. I think the parents need checked out more if you ask me. I think myspace is great & both my girls have one and will. I think if you watch over them. the computer is in your home, that to me is much safer then sending them out!! "
02/25/2008:
"I am 14 and i have a myspace. I have kept in touch with friends that I met in europe and family members that live across the world, i can upload videos for them to comment and take tons of pictures for them to see. When I'm on myspace i dont have to worry about messy hair or morning breath or anything i can just talk to my friends. Many parents are scared that if your on myspace you will get raped and kidnapped. That is not true, it all depends on the child, if the child is responsible enough to handle a myspace then you should be able to trust them. Make kids think of it this way in real life you wouldnt give your address to a person you dont know, so why would you give it to a person you have never met?"
01/25/2008:
"i agree with the rules you showed and the steps on how to be safe"
01/23/2008:
"It isn't very fair for people to go to adults about how to manage a website designed for teens and young adults. If they aren't using Myspace and being opened up to all of the dangers and benfits of the site, what right do they have to talk? I am a 16 year old boy. I have a myspace. I do not post anything innapropriate or personal on my page. I also do not give any personal information to people I have never met. In fact, I usually do not add people I have never met. I have had this myspace page for about 3 years now. I have never been sexually harrassed, harmed, or threatened the entire time I have had it. My parents know I have a myspace, and almost all of my cousins have a myspace. We are all alive and well, because we know better. Our parents give us enough freedom to the point where we have no reason to go against every word they say. The reason these kids are being harmed is for several reasons: A) They wanted someone they could talk to, and the predator listened. B) They thought they knew everything because they had nothing to tell them otherwise. C) They were stupid. There are dozens of different reasons why, most of them only more detailed statements of the above. The fact is, though, danger is everywhere, no matter where you go. People say they want their kids to be safe. That's completely understandable. But for kids to be truly safe, they need to know the difference between safety and danger."
01/7/2008:
"Myspace, as far as I can tell, has no extremely evident positive side effects, but seeing some of the content that is allowed on this internet community site can be emotionally and mentally scarring for children. I am saying this from experience, because when I was a 4th grader, one of my close friends introduced me to the site. Being the gullible child I was, I signed up immediately, but instead of using real pictures, I role played as a character from a popular kids show I was fond of. It only took a few days for comments to come rolling in such as, 'You look hot, 'Wanna be friends, sweetie?' and other messages containing various degrees of explicit content. I was horrified and quit my account immediately, but I can't say the same for less immature kids that want to 'play adult,' and continue in a lifestyle which will result in grades dropping, emotional levels receding, and basically, 'living for the computer.'"
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